tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8080366684455906920.post4679119996196940931..comments2014-11-21T01:01:04.801-08:00Comments on the push pack: How many children is "enough"?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8080366684455906920.post-66419421271626082402011-09-21T22:29:17.180-07:002011-09-21T22:29:17.180-07:00So many thoughts / emotions on this issue!! Thank...So many thoughts / emotions on this issue!! Thanks for being so honest & sharing your thoughts ladies.Laura Maguhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07218161844979040782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8080366684455906920.post-32216112687317253312011-09-21T16:01:58.029-07:002011-09-21T16:01:58.029-07:00Laura- I have a THING with the number 3. Most ever...Laura- I have a THING with the number 3. Most everything I do in my life is in 3s. I don't think my husband even wanted kids before we were married. We have two- and he was fully on board (I think) when I decided it was time. Now I have been hell bent on having that 3rd baby. I told him on Mother's Day that I am giving him 6 months to either agree or I will not bring it up again. He is not very keen on the idea which sort of slays me, seeing that he basically does the fun stuff while I do everything else and I don't ask him for anything.... We just went through attic stuff and I was putting up the heirloom cradle that my dad handmade for me. I asked him, "SHould I donate my pump?" Because he knows I have been holding on to certain things, knowing that I am aching for another baby. He told me I should donate it, which pretty much has given me the answer to my request. I am still grieving/processing this reality. Don't get me wrong, I am so very grateful for my two perfect little ones. I just know my heart is not full to the top and don't get why he doesn't seem to have room to love one more little person. I still have a few more months to cling to hope but I don't think I am going to win this one....<br />Michelle DibbAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8080366684455906920.post-7699437296786688202011-09-21T12:46:16.001-07:002011-09-21T12:46:16.001-07:00I have one daughter and I think my boyfriend and I...I have one daughter and I think my boyfriend and I have settled on having one more. Although in my mind for some reason I keep seeing myself with three kids. For now, I think right now my mind set is, "two is what we want but if another one happens, I don't mind."<br />My daughter was never planned, and we had long conversations whether to keep her or not because I'm very young and still getting my life together. It wasn't realistic then, but now that she is here everything is perfect and we make everything work. I think you make things work, reguardless of the circumstances. :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04637554655729032975noreply@blogger.com